Many people learn to overextend themselves in their relationships, doing for others things that the friend or family member could or should do for themselves. Often, this overextension is seen as 'just helping' the other person, when in reality it is anxiety-based and a form of subtle control. This pattern of relating is typical of those in relationship with a person who is struggling with an addiction (alcohol, drug or gambling) or some other compulsive behavior. At FSC, we can help you change this unhealthy pattern of relating to others, leading you to feel less tension and anxiety in your relationships, and create more positive interactions.
Dr. Rinck has had many years of experience working with people who struggle in this area of codependency. She wrote a book called Can Christians Love Too Much? Breaking The Cycle of Codependency. In it she outlines a plan for recovery from dysfunctional caretaking. In therapy, she guides clients through a similar process so that they may achieve their goal of freedom.
Psychologists associated with this program
Margaret J. Rinck, EdDFor more information about codependency please see our resources page.
