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FOR COUPLES ONLY
8 Creative ways to revive a relationship...
- Surprise Day!
Each partner picks only one "Surprise Day" of the week to be nice/kind to partner all day. At the end of the week, partners guess which was the other's "Surprise Day."
- Ten Minute Fix:
Partners each spend five minutes, telling the other what First Attracted you to them.
Listening Partner: Totally opens to accept compliments and just listens.
Complimenting Partner: Describe in detail partner's physical traits, personality, behaviors, emotions, values, character, anything, especially small things that initially attracted them, in a totally positive way. (you can go over time on this one.) Switch Roles.
- Adventure Path:
Each Partner picks one adventurous activity, something they have never done but would like to do , and the other partner opens himself/herself to go along in the spirit of adventure. Alternate weekends.
- Essence of Love:
Partners spend 5 minutes of total silence looking into each others eyes/face while holding hands, and seeing the loving/positive/true nature of the partner. Discuss afterwards.
- Completion/Circle:
Each partner writes a one page letter to the other stating to the other what they have learned from the other and what they have yet to learn.
- Why?:
Each partner asks themselves: "Why am I with this person?" "What positives does this person bring to my life?" "How do they balance me?" Keep in positive vein, write out answers, share answers. 5 - 10 minutes each.
- Chuckling:
- Each partner makes a list of 10 jokes.
- One partner places their head on the other's stomach (clothed or unclothed) and tells their jokes.
- Rotate positions. (Don't overlook the benefits of good, hearty laughter.)
- Massage Therapy
Start slow. One partner gives the other a 5 minute massage, taking requests and suggestions. Alternate roles and nights.
- Make up your own!
Be creative, open, adventurous.
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