ACTING IN	SHAME	ACTING OUT
A strong control orientation. Individual still feels compulsive but fights addiction. Strong fear of letting go. Must constantly be on his guard. Person shames himself because of compulsivity. Swears he won't act out again. Person tries to hold in his impulse to act out.	A sense of unworthiness, of being "no good." Feelings of hopelessness, and lowered self-esteem.	Compulsions	Sex Addiction
		Dieting	Money / Gambling
		Working	Addiction to Chaos
		Mental Rituals	Emotional Highs
		Self-righteousness	Physical Abuse
		Perfectionism	Emotional Abuse
		Codependency	Sexual Abuse
	ABANDONMENT	Super-achieving	Ecstatic Religiosity
	The fear that my shame is uncovered and that people will reject and abandon me.	Addictions	Self-mutilation
		Alcohol / Drugs	Relationship Addiction
		Food disorders	Caretaking